my beautiful sister elaine is on boy number four (no girls). the newest, named elias after our dad, is the spitting image of elaine. big mouth, lots of curly hair, and smiles a lot…she was the same even though she had me pushing her around…playing war games, tying her to trees, and stuff like that. elias’ three older brothers, i’m sure, will abuse him the same way. that’s ok. builds character.